"Grace is the power of the Holy Spirit coming to us free of charge to enable us to do with ease what we could never do on owr own." -Joyce Meyer on the definition of 'grace'
Sometimes people pride themselves for some of the flaws they have simply because it makes them them. Creativity is not stubborn originality. It's the ablility to create value, in this case, the ability to change to get your problems solved. Ego says nothing needs improvement (especially 'I'). Don't be deceived.
People are losing a sense of knowing what they want in life. They want what other people want. They want what they think they should want. No no no, what do you really want?!