WAHAHAHAHAH WOW!! never never be the same! amen!
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It has come to my first 'Arise and Build', and nowadays i've been listening to quite a few sermons and then the principles of sowing & reaping kept jumping out from those sermons.
So just some thoughts..
It came to my awareness nowadays that people often say things like, 
"why is this happening to me all the time?"
"see here it happened again, guess i'm fated to be like that until God knows when it's gonna end."
almost all the time i hear the 'S' word in different versions, "SIAN...", "wa SIAN!" or "SIAN, SIAN, SIAN...", etc.
I understand what they've been going through becaused i've been through that kinda sh!t too and sometimes still. But the truth sets people free, so i hope what i'm about to share would hit a few buttons of theirs and contribute abit to their well-being.
Yes this is to do with the truth of 'sowing & reaping' (the law of nature), the beautiful thing about truth is that it's always there, people tried ways to avoid it, push it aside/someone else, cover it up, even destroy it, but truth is indestructable like an indestructable.. er.. rock, also like a cock it always surfaces, always true, always there. We need to get use to this law of nature which is truth. 
Because as much as we don't want to face it, we need to learn about it, get use to it, flow with it like a surfer on the waves. Because you can't change the waves, your only job is to flow with them and enjoy the ride.
Truth never changes, so if we want to see change in our lives, we've got to learn about it, get use to it & flow with it (not try to change truth nor avoid it).
that's the intro, here's the truth i want to share:
What is sown into your life is LOVE (You may be surrounded by loving people who cares), but if what's thriving in you is Bitterness/Anger/Hatred/Unforgiveness/Distrust. 
You may not be able to manifest the life of loving relationships with the people around you. 
Mother Teresa said "If you judge people, you have no time to love them"
What is sown into your life is EXCELLENCE, but what is thriving in your life could be Mediocrity/Complacency/Laziness/Sianzation. 
What is sown into your life is FAITH & HOPE, but what's thriving in you could be 
Doubt/Defeat/Fear.
What do these examples tell you?
Well for me it tells me that 
- If one is unwilling to accept truth, no matter how hard you try to help them, you'll never gonna see change.
- You can never help somebody in denial
- The first step of getting help is when one starts accepting responsibility because it always starts with the person 
- Unless one makes a decision to change, he/she will never have a breakthrough
The seed is in your hand. If you want the harvest you sow the seeds.
you're responsible for the change you say you wanna have.
Like a farmer on his field. He can walk around the field all day complaining about the hot weather, and the pest, and the quality of the soil, etc, etc. 
Unless he starts sowing, nothing will ever ever happen. Nothing.
What has been your hot weather/pest/circumstances? let's make a decision to start sowing seeds. sometimes it hurts facing the truth, but it's a guide and meant for your good, it SETS YOU FREE.
The key to Change/Breakthrough is the willingness to accept truth and say "you know what, if i want that harvest so badly, imma sow these seeds right now if this is what it takes, let this day be the day of change!"
A change is not a change until it's changED
Something has gonna stop forever and sth has gonna start from NOW on.
Let's do sth radical to mark/celebrate this day of your breakthrough.
Anything you can think of.. maybe stop saying the 'S' word from now on? (you might be surprised man lol serious! i know because i've done that already hahaha)
Let's really do sth for ourselves & others man.
Life is fun & colouful because IT IS, dont make it dull =D
Peace!! lol
 JINLONG - Jay eL . 77 =)
JINLONG - Jay eL . 77 =)